A few posts back, I wrote that I believe that we are meant to be the creators of our lives, not merely reactors or regurgitators. And, though I hold that belief, sometimes it's challenging in the face of negative emotion, or negative events to think, "Wow! I created that." And, so instead of getting into the creating mode, we get stuck in the reacting mode, replaying events that happened, things that were said, instances that upset us. Those are the memories that get stuck in our mental craws. We have about 70,000 thoughts per day, and 40,000 of those are repetitions from the previous day.
In Julie's interview, she stated something in a way that I hadn't really heard before, and it stuck with me. She said we are the writers of our stories. And, we let other people co-author with us. Be it good or bad, our lives are about co-authoring with others. We let the positive and negative stories that everybody we interact with shape and create our stories. And, that's not a bad thing...it's just life. But, at any moment, we have the power to change our stories.
How she said it, the way in which I was listening, and I guess my renewed interest and practice in writing, for whatever reason, her comments made my brain buzz with excitement. I know this! I deeply believe it! WE each are our lives' own authors! It's like the choose your adventure books, we can choose the people, the scenery, the plot. And, if we don't like it, we can change it! Yet, change is scary. We fear what changing our story will do in terms of affecting other people's stories. We fear the uncertainty of plot twists. We fear whether or not our book will have a happy and satisfying ending. We simultaneously love and fear the immense power of creation!
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